Crises Do Not Come in Turns

Like a joke, June July is upon us. Like a joke, half the year is gone reminding us once again, that time really doesn't wait. One of my favourite quotes come to mind, If you think you don't have time, it gets worse with time.- Unknown Source The world has literally been brought to it's…

To Post Or Not To Post

February this year marked twenty years since my mother passed away. That's almost all my life. As significant as this is, I've spent even more time than usual wondering how different my life would have been if she was here. And I’ll tell you a secret - I've caught myself feeling sad that I don't…

The Glorification of Female Virginity

What does virginity mean to you? Does a female come to mind when you think of virginity? Or do you think of a 'loose' woman? Image by mohamed Hassan from Pixabay A Gender in Peace and Conflict module I took during my Master's program involved very long and interesting discussions and readings on gender in conflict.…

Needles and Cushions

Bear with me as I try to gather my scattered thoughts. There's a feeling of being pulled in opposite directions. On one hand, I'm happy to work in this sector; happy about the impact I see being made and the idea that I'm able to contribute to such a good cause. However, on the other hand,…

Sidestepping the Real Issues?

For the past couple of weeks, I've had some things on my mind in need of sorting which I've been avoiding because they are just heavy topics. And how can I pass across a thought that remains unclear in my mind? Anyway, all that brings me here. I've decided to put my thoughts down and…

When a ‘Sinking Ship’ Provides Safety

When a sinking ship provides safety, it points to the need for some serious examination. As a result of the displacement caused by various armed non-state actors in Nigeria, thousands of Nigerian have begun to seek refuge in neighbouring countries. This is in addition to the additional number applying for asylum further away. Yet, Nigeria…

Vanishing Childhoods

I was riding the bus home the other day, trying to distract myself from the loud chatter of the teenagers on board. Usually, I’d be reading a book, listening to music or watching a movie. This particular day, I was watching a movie but the voices were so loud. Laughing, talking and generally seeming very…

Time Waits For No One

The only thing that changes with time; is time I had a principal in secondary school. I can’t remember his name but we all called him Mr White. Mr White was from northern Nigeria and never wore anything apart from the traditional long flowing top and loose trousers. Always in one colour. White. I think…

A Story of Adoption

I’ve loved adoption for as long as I can remember. I just think it’s awesome welcoming a child into your family; one who wasn’t born there. Add to that the growing number of orphans and children in vulnerable situations around the world. I just think it makes sense. I also know it’s not for everyone.…

Am I Becoming a Worry Wart? 😕

Can any of you live a bit longer by worrying about it? If you can't manage even such a small thing, why worry about the other things? Luke 12: 25 & 26 What use is there in worrying? I’ll be the first to admit that I worry a lot. I also won’t be counted among the…